Iran's Image Problem

When you think about Iran, what comes to mind?  War, Muslim extremists, anti-Western sentiment, an oppressed female population?  Since arriving in Iran one stereotype after another has been shattered.  But the biggest shock has been how nice the people are.  I cannot count the number of times a total stranger has gone out of their way to guide me, advise me, feed me and even pay for an expense (taxi fare, bus fare, entrance fees....).  In fact, I have been adopted by an Iranian family... 

I arrive in Qazvin around 8pm from Tehran.  To my surprise all the guesthouses in my guidebook are full- or at least this is what I am told.  Unfortunately, single female travellers are not always welcome in cheap hotels.  I approach a man on the street and ask for his advice.  In broken English he says I can stay with him and his family.  I have heard of such invitations and gratefully accept his offer.  I arrive at his home where I meet his wife, son and mother.  They all fuss over me and I can’t understand what I have done to receive such kindness.  The next day I head to the mountains to visit a castle, come back to Qazvin to tour around, and finish by purchasing an overnight train ticket.  I arrive back at my Iranian family home and they are disappointed to hear I am leaving.  But they won’t let me go before they take me to visit the extended family including sisters, brothers, grandparents, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and friends of the family.  Although I am astounded at their generosity and interest in me, I am thankful I have my onward ticket because the attention becomes a bit too much.  I leave with 6 phone numbers I can call in case I get into any trouble...

What we have heard about Iran is definitely not a reflection of the people living there.  Many Iranians will agree they have an image problem as a result of their government.  The Islamic Republic came to power 33yrs ago and will be remembered for introducing Sharia Law and severing all ties with the USA.  These stifling laws and the anti-American sentiment are not welcomed by the majority.  The people themselves are incredibly honourable, decent and innocent.  I almost can’t believe such a place still exists in the world today, especially in a place as feared as Iran.

So, as I finish my time in Iran I hope all your worries have been put to rest.  I know many of you think I am crazy, but I am so glad I did not listen to the concerns of family and friends and instead honoured my you-can’t-tell-me-what-to-do nature.  Thinking of home but happily abroad,

Carrie